Impamvu aba Gen Z bakomeje kwirengagiza imiryango yabo n'ababyeyi babo

Iki kibazo gikomeje kwiyongera cyane cyane mu bantu bo mu kinyejana cya Gen Z, abenshi bavuga ko bafite ubuzima bwo mu miryango butari bwiza, harimo ibibazo by’uburwayi bwo mu mutwe, urugomo n’ubusinzi.

Kate Wills, umwanditsi kuri The Times, The Guardian akanikorera mu kiganiro cy’ubuzima, we ubwe avuga ko afite umubano utoroshye n’umubyeyi we, umubyeyi we akaba yaragiye kubana n’umukunzi mushya akimara kumuta afite imyaka 15. 

Ubushakashatsi bwa "Stand Alone" bwerekanye ko muri iyi myaka ya vuba, abantu benshi bakomeje kugira imyitwarire yo guhagarika cyangwa kugabanya itumanaho n’ababyeyi babo bitewe n’ibibazo byinshi bagiye babona, harimo n'ibibazo by'iyicarubozo, gufata ibiyobyabwenge, no kuba ababyeyi babo bari barabatereranye.

Abantu batandukanye barimo n'abahanzi b’ibyamamare nka Matt Goss ndetse na Meghan Markle bamaze kubigaragaza, bagaragaza uko imibanire yabo n’imiryango yabo itameze neza ndetse n’uko bagerageza kwimuka mu buzima bwabo kugira ngo bave mu bibazo. 

Whitney Goodman, umujyanama mu by’imiryango, avuga ko "abantu batangiye kumva ko imiryango itagomba kuba igihangayikisho, ahubwo ko ari ingenzi guha agaciro imibanire itanga amahoro, atari ukuguma mu bibazo".

Laura, umugore w’imyaka 38, avuga ko yagize ibibazo bikomeye n’umuryango we, ahanini byaturutse ku kuganira nabi n’umubyeyi we ndetse n’ibindi bikorwa byo mu muryango byagiye bimuhungabanya. 

Nyuma yo gusanga ibyo byose byari byaramuhungabanyije cyane, yahisemo guhagarika umubano n’umuryango we, ahagarika kuvugana n’umuvandimwe we ndetse n’ababyeyi be.

Imiryango imwe na imwe izwi cyane ku isi nayo iri mu bibazo nk’ibi, harimo Drew Barrymore watandukanye n'umuryango we ku buryo bwemewe n’amategeko kuva akiri umwana, ndetse na Keanu Reeves nawe akaba yarasezeye burundu kuri se. 

Nubwo ibi byose bigaragara nk'ibyihariye, abantu benshi bagaragaza ko kubana n'imiryango yabo atari byiza, bityo bagahitamo kwimuka, bakirinda guhangayikishwa n’ibibazo by’ubuzima bw’imiryango.

Nubwo hari impungenge ko kwiyambura ababyeyi bigira ingaruka mbi, abajyanama bagira inama abantu kugerageza gushaka umuti hifashishijwe umujyanama cyangwa umuntu w’inyangamugayo, kugira ngo babone uburyo bwo gukemura ikibazo neza.

Ku rundi ruhande, Laura, nubwo atabona uburyo bwo kugarura imibanire ye n’ababyeyi be, avuga ko yarebye ibintu uko byari bimeze, kandi ko ari ingenzi kubaho ubuzima bunoze. Gusa yemeza ko bitagombaga kuba byiza, ariko yasigaye ari kumwe n’umugabo we, kandi ko ibintu byaje guhinduka.

Ikoreshwa ry'ibiyobyabwenge mu miryango biri mu bituma urubyiruko ruzinukwa umuryangoAmakimbirane yo mu ngo atuma abenshi mu ba Gen Z batandukana n'imiryango burundu ubutazongera kuvugana