Abahanga bavuga ko hari abantu 10 udakwiye kwizera

Hari abantu benshi batangaje ibitekerezo byerekana abo udakwiye guha icyizere mu mibanire yacu. Abahanga benshi mu by’imitekerereze, filozofiya, n’ubuzima rusange, batanga inama ku bantu 10 udakwiye kwizera mu buzima. Dore bamwe muri bo n’ibitekerezo byabo:

1. Umuntu w'umugambanyi:

Abahanga benshi bagaragaza ko umuntu w’inshuti cyangwa ukorana nawe ushobora kugukorera icyaha nyuma yo kubana nawe igihe kirekire atagukunda. Ibi bigaragara cyane mu bitabo nka The Art of War ya Sun Tzu, aho avuga ko ugomba guhora ushishoza kandi ukirinda abantu bafite ingeso yo kugambanira abandi.

2. Abantu bashaka iby’inyungu gusa (Self-interested people):

Abantu bafite inyungu zabo gusa bagira ubushake bwo gukoresha abandi kugira ngo bakuremo inyungu. Benjamin Franklin yavuze ko “Abantu bafite inyungu zabo gusa ni bo bashobora kugutera ibibazo”, bagashaka gukora ibintu bigamije inyungu zabo, ndetse batita ku wundi muntu.

3. Uwivuga ibigwi (Boaster):

Abantu bakunda kuvuga byinshi ku byo bashoboye ariko badatanga ibimenyetso bifatika ku byo bavuga ntibagomba kwizera. William Shakespeare yanditse mu gitabo Hamlet ko “kwizera bose birimo ubutindi” – yerekana ko dukeneye kuba maso mu kumenya abo ushobora kwizera. Umuntu uhorana igitekerezo cyo kwivuga ibigwi cyangwa kwiyemera ntashobora kuba umuntu twagirira icyizere.

4. Abantu badakunda guhindura imyitwarire (Stubborn people):

Kwemera amakosa no guhindura imyitwarire ni ikimenyetso cy’umuntu w’umunyabwenge. Mu buhanga bwa filozofiya, Aristotle yagaragaje ko umuntu utabona amakosa ye cyangwa ukomeza kumva ko ari we wenyine ufite ukuri, ntashobora kuba umuntu w’icyizere. Ni ngombwa guha agaciro impinduka z’ubuzima no gufata ibyemezo byiza.

5. Uwivuga ibinyoma (Liar):

Kuvuga ukuri ni imwe mu ndangagaciro nyamukuru zishingirwaho mu mibanire. Abantu batanga ibinyoma kenshi ntibagomba kwizera, kuko bazatuma ugera ku bibazo mu buzima. Friedrich Nietzsche yigeze kuvuga ko ukwizera ku muntu w’umunyabinyoma kuganisha ku kubura ikizere cy’ubuzima bwiza. Kwizera umuntu utavuga ukuri bigira ingaruka mbi ku mibanire.

6. Abantu batabasha kubana n’abandi (Anti-social people):

Abantu batagirana umubano mwiza n’abandi, bagira imibanire ikomeye, ntibakunze gusangira, cyangwa bagashaka kubaho mu buryo bw’ukwigira ubwabo, ntibakwiye kwizera. Sun Tzu avuga ko umuntu udashobora gukorana n’abandi neza atagomba gukorerwa ikizere, kuko atagira ubushobozi bwo gufatanya n’abandi.

7. Abantu bashaka kugushora mu bikorwa bibi (Manipulators)

Abantu bagira ubushobozi bwo kugushora mu bikorwa bitari byiza, bakubwira ibintu bitari ukuri kugira ngo bagere ku nyungu zabo, ntibagomba kwizerwa. Benjamin Franklin yagaragaje ko umuntu uhorana imigambi yo kugukurura mu bikorwa bibi atagomba kugirirwa icyizere, kuko uzakora ibyaha bitazagira ingaruka nziza.

8. Abantu banga kugabana (Greedy people):

Abantu batazi gusangira ibyo bafite cyangwa bakunze gusa gushaka ibindi bibanza batanga ntibagomba kwizera. Abantu batizera gusangira n’abandi bigaragara ko bibwira ko bari hejuru y’abandi, kandi iyi ngeso ituma batagira ubumwe n’abandi. Ni ngombwa gusangira no gufasha abandi kugira ngo ibyo umuntu afite bibe bikoreshwa neza.

9. Abantu banga gufata ibitekerezo by’abandi (Closed-minded people):

Abantu bafite umutwe w’igitugu, badashaka kwakira ibitekerezo by’abandi kandi bagahitamo kugumana ibitekerezo byabo gusa ntibagomba kwizera. Nietzsche yavuze ko umuntu ufunga umutwe ku bintu bitandukanye atabasha kugira inyungu cyangwa kugira ubufatanye bwiza n’abandi, bityo ntashobora kuba wizerwa.

10. Abantu batagira indangagaciro (Dishonorable people):

Abantu batagira indangagaciro cyangwa badashyira imbere ubumuntu, bashobora gutera ibibazo mu mibanire. Mu buzima bwa buri munsi, ni ngombwa kugira indangagaciro nziza kugira ngo ube umuntu wizewe. Umuntu udakurikiza indangagaciro za muntu ntabwo agomba kwemererwa kugira uruhare mu bintu bigamije iterambere.

Abahanga benshi batanze inyigisho ku byerekeye abantu badakwiye kwizerwa. Kwizera birasaba gushishoza no kumenya neza uwo uha agaciro mu buzima bwawe. Abantu bafite imyitwarire iganisha ku kuba abanyabwenge, bafite ibitekerezo byiza, kandi bagira indangagaciro nziza ni bo ushobora kwizera kuko batuma dushobora kugera ku ntego zacu mu buryo bwiza.

Umwanditsi: Rose Mary Yadufashije