Zari Hassan uzwi nka Zari The Boss Lady, yabivugiye mu kiganiro cyabaye kuri TikTok Live, ubwo yavugaga ku mibanire y’abashakanye, inshingano z’abakundana ndetse n’uruhare rw’amafaranga mu buzima bw’umuryango.
Yagaragaje ko hari abagabo babuza abagore babo gukora cyangwa gushaka amafaranga, ariko na bo ubwabo ntibabashe kubaha ibyo bakeneye mu buzima bwa buri munsi.
Kuri Zari, iyo umugore asigaye nta bushobozi bwo kwitunga afite kubera ko yabujijwe gukora, ariko umugabo we na we ntamufashe mu buryo bukwiye, bishobora kumushyira mu buzima bukomeye bwo kwishingikiriza ku mugabo we nawe utamwitaho.
Mu magambo ye yateje impaka, Zari yavuze ko umugore uri guhura n’icyo kibazo ashobora kwakira ubufasha bw’undi muntu, haba mu by’amafaranga cyangwa mu marangamutima.
Yageze n’aho avuga ko guca inyuma umugabo utagufasha kandi utakwemerera gukora bitagomba gufatwa nk’ubuhemu, ahubwo ko bishobora kuba “ukwirwanaho.”
Iri jambo ryahise rituma abantu batandukanye batangira kurigarukaho ku mbuga nkoranyambaga, bamwe bashyigikira igitekerezo cye, abandi bakavuga ko kuba umuntu afite ibibazo by’ubukungu bitamwemerera guca inyuma uwo bashakanye.
Bamwe mu bashyigikiye Zari bavuze ko ibyo yavuze bikwiye kurebwa mu rwego rwo kugenzura amafaranga mu mibanire, aho umwe mu bashakanye abuza undi gukora cyangwa kugira ubushobozi bwo kwinjiza amafaranga, ariko akanga no kumuha ibyo akeneye.
Aba bavuga ko umuntu udafite ubushobozi bwo kwitunga ashobora kwisanga mu mibanire imubuza kwigenga no gufata ibyemezo ku buzima bwe.
Kuri bo, ikibazo gikomeye si uguca inyuma uwo mwashakanye gusa, ahubwo ni uburyo ubukungu bushobora gukoreshwa nk’uburyo bwo kugenzura mugenzi wawe.
Ku rundi ruhande, hari abamunenze bavuga ko ibibazo by’amafaranga bitagomba gukoreshwa mu kwihimura ko guca inyuma uwo mwashakanye biba byemewe.
Bamwe bavuze ko niba umuntu atishimiye uburyo umubano we uteye, inzira ikwiye kuba ibiganiro, gushakira igisubizo hamwe cyangwa kuva muri uwo mubano, aho kujya mu yindi mibano rwihishwa.
Abandi banenze uburyo amagambo nk’aya ashobora gutuma urubyiruko n’abandi bakurikira ibyamamare kuri internet bafata imyanzuro ikomeye ku mibanire yabo bashingiye ku bitekerezo by’umuntu umwe.
Mu gihe amagambo ye yakomeje gukwirakwira, Zari yagaragaje ko ibyo yavuze ari igitekerezo cye bwite, kandi ko abantu bagomba kumenya ko gufata imyanzuro nk’iyo ari inshingano yabo.
Yongeyeho ko buri muntu afite ubuzima bwe n’ibihe arimo, bityo ko atari ngombwa ko buri wese akurikiza ibyo yavuze.
Icyakora, yavuze ko we ubwe azakomeza kubaho mu muryango we, anagaragaza ko abavuga cyangwa abakurikira igitekerezo cye bagomba kumenya ingaruka z’imyanzuro bafata.
Amagambo ya Zari yongeye gutuma havugwa ku ruhare rw’amafaranga mu mibanire, cyane cyane ku bijyanye no kwigenga mu bukungu, inshingano z’abashakanye no gufata ibyemezo mu muryango.