Iyi ngingo iri kwibandwaho cyane mu biganiro n’imbuga zitandukanye z’imyidagaduro ku Isi. Inzira y’iki gitekerezo ni uko bashingiye ku myumvire y’uko abasore badafite abakunzi bakunze kugira kwihangana, kwibanda ku ntego ndende, gukura mu byiyumviro no kwiyoroshya, ibintu byemerwa n’abantu benshi ko byarushaho kubakururira mu mibanire irambye no mu kubaka umuryango.
Ibi bitekerezo byagiye bivugwa cyane mu binyamakuru bitandukanye byibanda ku mibereho y’abantu n’ubuzima bw’urukundo, akenshi abamenyekanisha aya makuru bakabigaragaza mu buryo bworoshye kandi busetsa, ariko bigatanga isomo ryiza: kwihangana no gushyira imbere indangagaciro ndende biruta gushakisha umukunzi vuba.
Iyi ngingo ntiyemejwe cyane n’inyigo zishingiye ku bumenyi bukomeye (scientific research), ariko igaragara mu nyandiko zitandukanye z’abanditsi ba lifestyle ndetse n’abavuga rikijyana ku mbuga nkoranyambaga, bagiye bambika interuro igira iti: “Consistency beats chaos, and long-term values often matter more than early popularity.”
Ibi bisobanura ko ugushyira imbaraga ku bintu birambye kurusha gushaka kwishimirwa vuba bishobora kugira inyungu nini mu mibanire y’ejo hazaza.
Nk’uko bamwe mu banditsi bo ku mbuga z’imyidagaduro babivuze, iyi ngingo ni ubutumwa buzwi cyane muri iki gihe abantu benshi bahangayikishijwe n’ukuntu urukundo rukunze kubaho vuba cyangwa rukarangira vuba.
Bashimangira ko mu isi ihora ishakisha kwemezwa ako kanya (instant validation), hari ubwo gutegereza no gukora ku ntego ndende bishobora kugufasha mu buzima bwawe bw’urukundo no mu mibanire y’igihe kirekire.
Ibi bitekerezo biboneka cyane mu nkuru z’imyidagaduro n’imibereho, kandi kimwe mu binyamakuru byabivuze ni Multiple Lifestyle Reports, aho basobanuye ko abasore bamaze igihe badafite abakobwa bakundana nabo bashobora kuba barateje imbere imico ibafasha mu mibanire irambye mu gihe kizaza.
Nubwo iyo nyigo itakorewe ubushakashatsi mu buryo bwa siyanse (scientific study), ubutumwa butangwa buragaragaza inyigisho nziza ya gihanga: kwitonda, kwigirira icyizere no gushyira imbere indangagaciro z’igihe kirekire bitanga umusaruro mu buzima n’urukundo.