Umugore mwiza, ibanga ry’umugabo uzagera kuri byinshi — Sadate Munyakazi yagiriye inama urubyiruko

Sadate yabitangaje uyu munsi, aho yasangije abamukurikira ibihe yanyuranyemo n’umugore we ndetse anagaruka ku mateka y’ubuzima bwabo n’ibyo bagezeho.

Mu butumwa yanyujije ku rubuga rwe X, Sadate yavuze ko we n’umugore we bibukiranyije ibihe byashize, kuva mu rugendo bagiriye muri Uganda kugeza ku byo bagezeho muri iki gihe.

Yagaragaje ko ubuzima butubakira ku byo umuntu afite uyu munsi gusa, ahubwo ko n’ibyo umuntu anyuramo bishobora kumubera isomo rimufasha gutera imbere.

Ati: “Uyu munsi twishimira ibyo twagezeho ariko tutibagirwa ibyo twaciyemo, ahahise hacu hatubereye isomo ry’ubuzima ariko hamwe n’urukundo, gushyira hamwe no kwihangana ntekereza ko byatugize.”

Ibi Sadate yabivuze mu gihe yakomezaga gusangiza abantu urugendo rwabo, agaragaza ko imyaka umuntu amara akora, yihangana kandi yubaka ubuzima bwe ari yo igenda imugeza ku byo yifuza kugeraho.

Yashimangiye ko kuri ubu we n’umugore we bageze ku rwego abona nk’urugero rw’ibishoboka. Ati: “Uyu munsi muratubona turi urugero rw’ibishoboka, turi urugero rw’ibyagezweho.”

Urukundo nk’umusingi w’urugo rwiza

Mu butumwa bwe, Sadate yagarutse cyane ku ruhare rw’urukundo mu kubaka urugo, asaba abashakanye kutibanda gusa ku byo bafite, ahubwo bakagira umwanya wo kubaka umubano ushingiye ku gukundana, gufashanya no kwihanganirana.

Yagize ati: “Umugore mwiza ibanga ry’umugabo uzagera kuri byinshi, twubake ingo zacu kubera urukundo.”

Ubu butumwa ni isomo ku rubyiruko ruri gutegura ubuzima bw’ejo hazaza, kuko urugo rudakwiye kubakwa rushingiye ku byifuzo by’igihe gito gusa, ahubwo rukaba urwego abantu babiri bafatanyirizamo kugera ku ntego zabo.

Urugo rushingiye ku rukundo no ku bufatanye rushobora gutuma abashakanye bahangana n’ibibazo bahura na byo badahise bacika intege. Iyo buri umwe yumva ko afite mugenzi we wo kumwuganira, kumushyigikira no gufatanya na we, intego z’urugo zishobora kurushaho gusobanuka.

Urubyiruko rukwiye kubaho rufite intego

Ubutumwa bwa Sadate kandi bushimangira ko urubyiruko rukwiye kureba kure, rukagira intego mu buzima kandi rugakora rufite icyerekezo.

Kugera ku buzima bwiza ntibisaba gusa kugira amafaranga cyangwa ibindi bikoresho, ahubwo bisaba kugira indangagaciro, gukora cyane, kwihangana no kugira abantu mufatanya mu rugendo rw’ubuzima.

Ku bashaka kubaka ingo, ni ingenzi kumva ko urukundo rutagomba kuba amagambo gusa, ahubwo rugomba kugaragarira mu bikorwa bya buri munsi birimo gutega amatwi, kubahana, gufashanya, kwihanganirana no gufata ibyemezo mufatanyije.

Inkuru ya Sadate n’umugore we kandi yerekana ko abantu bashobora kwishimira aho bageze uyu munsi ariko ntibibagirwe inzira banyuzemo. Ibyahise bishobora kuba isomo, mu gihe ubufatanye n’urukundo biba imbaraga zo gukomeza kubaka ejo hazaza.

Sadate Munyakazi yasoje ubutumwa bwe n’amagambo agira ati: “Happy Wife Happy Life,” agaragaza ko kugira urugo rwiza no kubona uwo mubana yishimye na byo ari igice cy’ingenzi cy’ubuzima bwiza.

Umugore mwiza, ibanga ry’umugabo uzagera kuri byinshi — Sadate Munyakazi yagiriye inama urubyiruko