Doreen yatangiye ubuzima bwe nk’umukobwa usanzwe wakuriye muri Afurika, ariko afite inzozi nini zo kuzagera kure. Nubwo atari afite inzira isobanutse, yari azi neza ko ashaka kuba umuntu ukomeye no kubaka ibintu bifite agaciro.
Nk’imfura mu bana bane b’abakobwa, yakuze yikorera umutwaro w’inshingano nyinshi. Ibi byamwigishije gukomera no kudacika intege hakiri kare.
Ku myaka 16 gusa, yagerageje amahirwe mu kazi ko ku rwego rwo hejuru mu bucuruzi mpuzamahanga, aho yahatanaga n’abantu 250. Yabashije kugatsindira kandi arigaragaza, bigaragaza ko yari asanzwe afite impano n’ubushobozi mu bucuruzi.
Ubuzima bwe bwaje guhinduka cyane igihe se yabasigaga. Doreen yafashe icyemezo gikomeye cyo kureka ishuri inshuro ebyiri kugira ngo abashe gufasha umuryango we, cyane cyane kugira ngo bashiki be bakomeze kwiga. Icyo gihe cyari kigoye cyane, kuko yibuka ko yabaye mu nzu yasenyutse, afite matela imwe gusa n’itara, ubuzima bwe bugizwe n’akazi n’imibereho igoye.
Nubwo byari bimeze bityo, ntiyigeze acika intege. Yakuye imbaraga kuri nyina wamweretse ko bishoboka kongera kubaka ubuzima bushya n’iyo umuntu yaba yatangiye ari ubusa. Ni ho yakuye isomo rikomeye: niba utahawe amahirwe, ushobora kuyihangira.
Nyuma yaje kwimukira muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe za Amerika ashaka kwagura ibikorwa bye. Ariko ubuzima bwo muri Amerika bwatangiye bumugora cyane, kuko yahuye n’ibibazo by’ibyangombwa n’ubukene, bituma aba mu icumbi ry’abatagira aho kuba. Nubwo byari bimeze bityo, yakomeje kwizera ko igihe cye kizagera.
Yatangiye buhoro buhoro acuruza imifuka ku muhanda ayikuye mu modoka ye. Uwo mushinga muto ni wo waje gukura, ugahinduka ubucuruzi bukomeye. Uyu munsi, Doreen ni umwe mu bagore bafite ijambo rikomeye mu bucuruzi, akaba n’umufatanyabikorwa ukomeye mu iterambere ry’umuryango we.
Kuri ubu, Doreen ari gushyira imbaraga mu gufasha abandi, cyane cyane abagore bo muri Afurika, kugira ngo babashe kwiyubaka no kugera ku rwego mpuzamahanga. Avuga ko abagore b’Abanyafurika bafite ubushobozi bukomeye, kandi igihe kigeze ngo bayobore, batari inyuma.
Kuri we, intsinzi nyayo si amafaranga cyangwa ibikorwa umuntu agezeho gusa, ahubwo ni umurage asiga n’uburyo ubuzima bwe bushobora kubera abandi urugero.
Nubwo agaragara nk’umugore ukomeye cyane, avuga ko mu mutima we ari umuntu woroshye, uharanira gufasha abandi kugera ku nzozi zabo.
Ubutumwa atanga ku rubyiruko, cyane cyane abakobwa, ni ukubanza kumenya abo ari bo, bakiyizera, kuko iyo umuntu yimenye neza nta kintu cyamunyeganyeza.
Doreen yemeza ko n’iyo yatakaza ibyo afite byose, ashobora kongera kubyubaka. Ibi abivuga yizeye, kuko azi neza aho yavuye n’imbaraga zatumye agera aho ari uyu munsi.
Urugendo rwe rwerekana ko n’iyo umuntu yatangira ari hasi cyane, ashobora kugera kure igihe afite icyerekezo, akora cyane kandi akizera ko bishoboka.
Doreen yahinduye amateka ye avuye mu buzima bugoye yakuriyemo muri Afurika agera ku ntsinzi mpuzamahanga