Uyu mugore wamenyekanye mu bikorwa byo kumurika ibicuruzwa
no ku mbuga nkoranyambaga, yahisemo kuvuga ku ruhande rw’ubuzima bw’ababyeyi
rutajya rugarukwaho cyane, cyane cyane iyo ari abantu basanzwe babona bashimwa,
bishimirwa kandi bashyigikiwe n’ababakurikira.
Kuba umuntu ashobora gusekerwa n’abantu benshi, agahabwa
amashyi ndetse akanashimwa kubera ibyo akora, ntibivuze ko aba adashobora
guhura n’ibibazo bimugora mu buzima bwe bwite.
Vanessa agaragaza ko urugendo rwo kuva mu buzima bwo kuba
umuntu uzwi, akavamo umugore n’umubyeyi, rwamweretse ko hari ibibazo
bidashobora gukemurwa no kuba umuntu akunzwe cyangwa yitabwaho n’abantu benshi.
Mu butumwa yashyize kuri konti ye ya Instagram, yavuze ko
nyuma yo kuba umubyeyi yahuye n’ibibazo birimo agahinda gakabije nyuma yo
kubyara, kunengwa kubera kubyara abazwe, guhangana n’imihindagurikire y’umubiri
ndetse n’amarira ababyeyi bashobora guhisha abandi, n’igihe abo bashakanye baba
babona ko bababaye ariko ntibamenye uko babafasha.
Yagize ati: “Nta muntu ugutegura ngo umenye guhangana
n’ituze n’ubwigunge bishobora kuza nyuma y’uko amashyi n’ibyishimo by’abantu
birangiye.”
Vanessa yakomeje agaragaza ko kuba yarabaye umuntu uzwi,
akaza no kuba umugore n’umubyeyi, bitigeze bimwubakira ubushobozi bwo guhangana
n’ibibazo byose yahuye na byo nyuma yo kubyara.
Yavuze ko agahinda gakabije nyuma yo kubyara, kunengwa
kubera kubyara abazwe, kutishimira uko umubiri uba wahindutse ndetse n’amarira
umubyeyi ashobora kurira mu ibanga, ari bimwe mu byo yifuza kugarukaho mu
gitabo cye.
Ikindi agarukaho ni uko hari igihe umugore ashobora kuba
ababaye, akeneye kumvwa no gufashwa, ariko umugabo we akabibona ntamenye icyo
yakora kugira ngo amufashe. Ibi bigaragaza ko ibibazo umubyeyi ahura na byo
bitareba umugore wenyine, ahubwo ko n’abo babana bakwiye kugira uruhare mu
kumwumva no kumuba hafi.
Vanessa yavuze ko amaze umwaka ashyira umutima we hamwe,
amarira n’ibyo yanyuzemo mu kwandika iki gitabo, yifuza gusangiza abandi
urugendo rwe uko rwari rumeze, atagerageje guhisha ibihe bimugoye cyangwa ngo
agaragaze gusa uruhande rwiza rw’ubuzima bwe.
Yasobanuye ko intego ye ari ukugera ku babyeyi bose bigeze
kumva ko batabonwa, bacirwa imanza kubera uko bahindutse cyangwa bananiwe
n’ibibazo bahura na byo mu buzima bwa buri munsi.
Mu butumwa bwe, Vanessa yagaragaje ko atagishaka gukomeza
kwigira nk’aho nta bibazo yahuye na byo, ahubwo ko yifuza kuvuga ku byamubayeho
kugira ngo n’abandi babyeyi babashe kwisanga mu nkuru ye.
Ibi bishobora no gufasha abantu gusobanukirwa ko kuba
umubyeyi atari urugendo rwuzuyemo ibyishimo gusa. Hari igihe ruherekezwa
n’impinduka z’umubiri, iz’amarangamutima n’iz’imibanire, bigatuma umubyeyi
akenera kwitabwaho no gushyigikirwa.
Vanessa yatangaje ko yifuza ko mbere y’umunsi igitabo cye
kizatangirwaho, abantu bazaba bamaze kugitumiza mbere bagera ku 5.000. Yasabye
abamushyigikira n’abandi bashishikajwe n’ubuzima bw’ababyeyi kumufasha kugera
kuri iyi ntego.
Abifuza kugitumiza mbere bashobora kubikora banyuze ku
rubuga [First Readers]( https://firstreaders.imaginewe.rw/campaigns/graceful-beginnings
), bakoresheje umurongo yashyize kuri konti ye ya Instagram.
Iki gitabo gishobora kuba umwanya wo kongera kuganira ku
bibazo ababyeyi bahura na byo nyuma yo kubyara, cyane cyane ibijyanye n’ubuzima
bwo mu mutwe, uko bakira impinduka z’umubiri n’akamaro ko kugira abantu babumva
kandi babashyigikira.
Ubutumwa bwa Vanessa bunibutsa ko inyuma y’amafoto meza,
amashyi n’ibyishimo bigaragara ku mbuga nkoranyambaga, hashobora kuba hari
umuntu uri guhangana n’ibibazo abandi batabona.
Ku babyeyi benshi, kumvwa, kutacirwa imanza no gufashwa bishobora kugira uruhare rukomeye mu rugendo rwo kongera kwiyakira no gukomeza ubuzima.
Uwase Vanessa Raissa agiye gusohora igitabo "Graceful Beginnings" agarukamo
ibibazo yahuye na byo nyuma yo kubyara, birimo agahinda gakabije, kunengwa
kubera impinduka z’umubiri no kubura ubufasha yari akeneye nk’umubyeyi