Dore ibimenyetso bishobora kukwereka ko umukobwa yakubengutse ahubwo akabura imbarutso yaho yahera ngo akubwire ikimwirukamo.
1. Agerageza kugusetsa no kugusekera
Umukobwa wagukunze ntiyifuza kukubona ubabaye n’umunsi n’umwe, bityo bigatuma yumva yakubwira amagambo agushimisha rimwe na rimwe akabikora kugira ngo akubone useka.
2. Agusaba ko musohokana
Mushobora kuba mwari inshuti zisanzwe, mukorana, mwigana se cyangwa hari ibindi bintu bibahuza, nyuma ukumva atangiye kujya agusaba ko mwasohoka mwenyine.
3. Ibimenyetso by’umubiri
Nubona umukubwa yinjiye ahantu uri akakwicira ijisho atavuze, akagukubita agashyi, akagukora mu mugongo ujye umenya ko hari ikintu kidasanzwe arimo kukwereka.
4. Azakubwira ko akunda imico yawe
Umukobwa nakubwira ko yikundira imico yawe azaba akubwiye ko agukunda. Ni bwo buryo bwe bwo kuvuga ko agukunda
5. Akugira inama z’ubuzima
Nuganira n’umukobwa wakubengutse uzajya wumva arimo kukugira inama z’ubuzima, akwereka icyo wakora kikakugirira akamaro n’icyo utagomba gukora. Ibi kandi ntabwo azabikora yabifatiye umwanya munini ahubwo azabikubwira igihe muhuye.
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