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The Ben yavuze uko umugore we yazanye impinduka mu buzima bwe

Yanditswe na: Janvier Iyamuremye
Taliki:31/01/2024 12:16 0

Umunyamuziki Mugisha Benjamin wamenye nka The Ben uri kubarizwa muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe za Amerika, yifurije isabukuru y’amavuko umugore we Uwicyeza Pamella amubwira ko ari we rufatiro rw’ubuzima rwe nyuma y’imyaka 5 ishize bakundana.

The Ben amaze iminsi ibiri muri Amerika, aho yitabiriye ibirori bya Rwanda Day bizaba ku wa Gatanu tariki 2 Gashyantare 2024 ndetse no ku wa Gatandatu tariki 3 Gashyantare 2024, bizabera mu nyubako ya Gaylord National Resort & Convention Center iherereye ahitwa National Harbor muri Leta Zunze Ubumwe za Amerika.

Yifashishije konti ye ya Instagram, kuri uyu wa Gatatu tariki 30 Mutarama 2024, The Ben yabwiye umugore we Uwicyeza Pamella ko ari we rufatiro rw’ubuzima ‘bwanjye’, kandi akomeza gusigasira umunsi we abikoranye ‘urukundo no kumwenyura’.

The Ben wamamaye mu ndirimbo zirimo ‘Habibi’ yavuze ko Pamella atuma buri ‘gihe mba mushya’. Avuga ko umwaka wiyongereye ku buzima bwa Pamella, ari urundi rugendo rwo gusangira ibyishimo, kuvumbura ibishya, no kugirana ibihe by’urwibutso birangajwe imbere no ‘kumvira ijwi ry’Imana’.

Uyu munyamuziki yifuje ko umunsi w’amavuko wa Pamella waba mwiza kurushaho nk’uko uwe ugenda buri munsi. Yavuze ko Pamella atuma buri gihe ashaka gusingira, gutera intambwe no kugera kure mu buzima bwe.

Yashimye Pamella ‘ku bw’urukundo rwawe rutagira icyo rushingiraho’. Yungamo ati “Reka uyu mwaka uzane umunezero wose ukwiye n’ibindi. Ndagukunda.”

The Ben avuga ko ku wa 24 Ugushyingo 2019 ari bwo bwa mbere yahuye na Pamella bahuriye mu Mujyi wa Nairobi muri Kenya.

Avuga ko icyo gihe byabaye amagambo y’urukundo yari yuzuye mu mutima we atabasha gusobanura, kandi ko umwanya bamaranye wabaye intangiriro y’urugo bagiye gushinga.

Uyu muhanzi wamamaye mu ndirimbo zirimo ‘Habibi’, avuga ko kuri uriya munsi, inseko n’uburyo Pamella yamuganirizaga byasize ibyishimo by’urwibutso muri we adashobora kwibagirwa. Ati “Kuva kuri uriya munsi, umutima ntiwari ukiri uwanjye, ahubwo wahise uba uwe.”

Mu magambo ya The Ben uherutse kuririmba muri Trace Awards, ati “2019 Uko twahuye! Tariki 24 Ugushyingo 2019, mu mutima w’Umujyi wa Nairobi, Kenya niho ururimi rw’urukundo rwabumbukiye. Ubwiza bwe bumurikiwe n’ibijojoba by’imvura bwanyibye roho. Inseko ye n’imyitwarire itangaje byasize ishusho y’umunezero muri njye, ntari kubasha kwirengagiza.”

“Uko twahuzaga amaso, nahise mbona ahazaza ndi kumwe nawe, kuva uwo munsi umutima ntabwo wari ukiri uwanjye ahubwo wabaye uwe.”

Pamella asobanura ko bwa mbere ahura na The Ben ari umunsi adashobora kuzibagirwa. Uyu mukobwa wamamaye mu marushanwa ya Miss Rwanda, yavuze ko yahuye na The Ben ari ku munsi wa Gatatu w’icyumweru, kandi ko icyo gihe imvura yaraguye.

Akavuga ko ari ibihe byaranzwe no kurebana akana ko mu ijisho. Ati “Ijwi rye, ubumuntu muri we, ukuntu yanganirizaga mu bitwenge, n’ukuntu yahumagara… (byubatse urukundo rwabo).”

Pamella anavuga ko hari igihe The Ben yamusohokanye bajya kureba filime, ibintu avuga ko ‘byatumye mukunda kurushaho’.

Uyu mugore yumvikanisha ko ahura na The Ben yari ahatanye mu marushanwa y’ubwiza ya Miss Africa, ariko ko atigeze amuburira umwanya. Ati “Buri gihe atuma mpora nseka, ku buryo kwihishira byangora. Ibindi bisigaye ni amateka.”

Pamella yavuze ko mu 2022 ubwo The Ben yamwambikaga impeta ari ibihe ‘ntashobora kwibagirwa’. Yavuze ko icyo gihe bahuriye muri Maldives ubwo bari mu biruhuko.

Akomeza ati “Kugeza ubu sindibagirwa bya bihe! Twagiye mu birwa bya Maldives kuko twese dukunda gutembera cyane, ubwo umukunzi wanjye yansabaga ko twabana afite impeta nziza hagati mu Nyanja y’Abahinde, navuze “Yego” n’ibyishimo byinshi ari nako mwongorera mu matwi nti “Mbega igihe cyiza cyo kubaho”