Gutera akabariro ni igice cy’ingenzi cyane hagati y’abakundana baba babeshyana cyangwa batabeshyana, kuba babana neza cyane cyangwa batabana neza. Uku gutera akabariro bituma biyumvanamo cyane. Muri iyi nkuru uramenya impamvu usabwa kujya utera akabariro cyane n’uwo mwashakanye.
Gutera akabariro ntabwo bifasha mu gukemura
ibyiyumviro by’inyuma gusa, ahubwo bifasha no mu gukemura iby'imbere mu mitima
cyangwa mu zindi ngingo z’abakundana cyane. Nta zindi mpamvu zikenewe hagati y’abakundana
uretse kuba bakundana cyane bikaba byabahuza bigatuma mu kora ibirenze. Imyumvire
yo mu mutwe wa muntu no mu buzima bwe ni uko asabwa kubaho yishimye kandi ibyo
bizava kuri we cyangwa uwo bakundana, gusa ntabwo ari ngombwa ko birangirira mu
buriri.
1.
Gutera
akabariro ku bashakanye bibafasha gukemura ibibazo byo mu rukundo rwabo.
Kuba mutakumvikana ku kintu runaka bituruka mu kuba
hari ibindi bibazo mufitanye cyangwa mwagiranye. Niba wowe n’uwo mwashakanye
mufite ibibzo murasabwa gutera akabariro. Kuganira no kuganira gukemura ibibazo
byanyu birakenewe cyane.
2.
Bikomeza
umubano wanyu
Gutera akabariro biruta ikindi cyose mwakora kuko
bituma muba mwe, bituma mu menya neza aho mukwiriye kuba muri. Ibi bikomeza
ubwonko bwanyu bigatuma murema ibindi byiyumviro birenze ibyo mwari mufitanye.
3.
Bibazanira
umunezero
Niba mu rugo rwanyu nta munezero warangwagamo nimumara
gutera akabariro bizagenda neza kandi muzamererwa neza cyane, mugire
umunezero mwinshi. Gutera akabariro bitunguranye ni ingenzi cyane.
Iyo abashakanye bari gutera akabariro baba baganira
cyane bigatuma uburyo bwabo bwo gukemura ibibazo bwiyongera bukaba bwiza
kurushaho.
TANGA IGITECYEREZO