Bimwe mu bintu abagore baremanye harimo gushyushya inkuru kandi benshi bibwira ko gushyushya inkuru atari ukubeshya ariko ukuri n’uko uwabeshye ntaho aba ataniye n’uwashyuhije inkuru.
Rimwe na rimwe rero abagore
bakunda gushyushya inkuru ku bintu bitari na ngombwa, urugero niba ashaka
kukwigarurira ndetse ashaka gugutera ishyari araza akakubwira ukuntu yahuye n’umusore
agatangira kumukabakaba kuva ku mutwe kugera ku mano akakubwira ukuntu uwo
musore yamwishimiye kandi mu by'ukuri wenda bahuje amaso akamwenyura gusa.
Aha rero hari urutonde rw’ibinyoma bitandukanye abagore bakunda
kubwira abagabo babo, bimwe muri ibi
binyoma nubwo bitagira icyo byangiza ariko ntibibibuza kwitwa ibinyoma.
Abagore bakunda kubeshya :
Kugira ngo umugabo amererwe neza: Ubusanzwe umugabo wese
ashimishwa no kubona ko atunze umugore we ndetse agashimishwa bikomeye no kuba ashobora gutanga ubufasha mu gihe
umugore abukeneye, iyi rero niyo mpamvu abagore bakunda gukabiriza ibintu, n’ibidakomeye
bakabigira byacitse kabone n'ubwo baba bashoboye kubyikorera, aha rero iyo
umugabo atanze ubufasha biramunezeza cyane.
Ibaze ko umugore ashobora gutobokesha imodoka, aho kugira ngo
ahamagare umukanishi cyangwa se abyikorere ahitamo guhamagara umukunzi we ngo amufashe kugira ngo
umukunzi we yiyumve nk’ufite agaciro gakomeye imbere ye.
Umubare w'abasore bakundanye: Abagore aho bava bakagera
bakunda guhisha abakunzi babo umubare w’abasore bakundanye, buri mugore
atekereza ko aramutse abwiye ukuri mugenzi we ku byerekeye umubano we wa kera bishobora
gutuma batandukana, aha rero abagore bahitamo guhisha ukuri gusharira aho
kugira ngo babure abo bakunda.
Umubare nyawo w'amafaranga bakoresheje bahaha: Iyo umugore yagiye guhaha, birashoboka rwose
ko atazavuga umubare nyawo w'amafaranga yakoresheje, impamvu ni uko rimwe na
rimwe bakoresha amafaranga menshi bagura utuntu twinshi ariko bakibaza icyo
bakoresheje amafaranga bakakibura, aha rero baba bafite impungenge z’uko
nibavuga ukuri bari buyoberwe aho amafaranga yagiye bagahitamo kubeshya.
Babeshya abakunzi babo ko basa neza: Inshuro nyinshi abagore
ntabwo ari abizerwa kuko bakunda kubeshya abo bakunda, urugero mu gihe umugabo
avuye muri salon bakamwogosha nabi ariko we akaza yishimiye ko asa neza, icyo
gihe rero abagore babeshya abakunzi babo ko basa neza kugira ngo batabangamirwa
ariko uko biri kose ibyo ni ibinyoma n'ubwo ntacyo bitwaye ariko btibibibuza kuba
ibinyoma.
Src: Journaldesfemmes.fr
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