Abahanga bavuga ko imvugo y’umubiri ishobora guhishura amakuru y’ingirakamaro ku miterere y’umuntu.
Ese ni gute wifata iyo uhuje ibiganza byawe byombi ?
Kugira ngo umenye imiterere yawe neza, subiza iki kibazo
utabanje kureba ku bisubizo biri hasi ahubwo ubanze umenye neza uko wifata mu
gihe uri guhuza ibiganza byawe uraza kubona ubusobanuro bwabyo ari nabyo biza
guhura n’imiterere yawe.
1.Iyo uhuje ibiganza byawe byombi, igikumwe cy’ibumoso kijya
hejuru
Niba umenyereye guhuza ibiganza byawe noneho igikumwe cy’ibumoso kikajya hejuru, bisobanuye ko uri umuntu utekereza. Mu by'ukuri, ntushobora gufata ibyemezo byihuse kandi uhitamo kwibaza ibibazo bikwiye mbere yo gufata ingamba, utinya cyane gukora amakosa no guhura n’uwakunegura bigatuma wigengesera mu byo ukora.
Amahirwe yawe, uri mwiza rwose mu kumenya niba umuntu
akubeshya cyane cyane ko buri gihe ufata umwanya uhagije wo gusesengura
imyitwarire n'ibitekerezo bya buri wese, byongeye kandi, uri inshuti yizerwa
kandi ukora ibishoboka byose kugira ngo uhe abandi inama nziza.
2. Iyo uhuje ibiganza byawe byombi, igikumwe cy’iburyo kijya
hejuru
Niba uhuza ibiganza byawe igikumwe cy’iburyo kikajya hejuru bivuze ko ushishoza cyane, ushobora gusoma ibitekerezo by’abandi ukanasesengura amarangamutima yabo ariko ntubibagaragarize. Hamwe n’ubu bushobozi, ubasha gutakariza umuntu icyizere kandi ugakomeza umubano wawe na we kandi waramaze kumutakariza icyizere.
Byongeye kandi, ufite
umutima munini ugufasha gutanga no gutega amatwi abandi n’iyo ari babi. Uri umujyanama
mwiza cyane, ufite ubuhanga bwo guhumuriza abantu no kubafasha kubona uruhande
rwiza. Mu by'ukuri, ufite imico myinshi igutera imbaraga ku bari hafi yawe.
3. Iyo uhuje ibiganza byawe byombi, ibikumwe byawe biba
bigororotse
Niba uhuza ibiganza byawe noneho ibikumwe byombi bikaba
bigororotse, byerekana ko ureba kure. Uri umuntu utunganye, uharanira kugera ku
ntego zawe ku gihe. Rero, niyo urwego rwawe bwite rimwe na rimwe ruba hejuru
cyane, ntushobora kwishyiriraho imipaka. Ariko ushobora gukurura amaganya
akomeye imbere ashobora guhindurwa imbaraga z’uruhande rwawe,. Wiga uburyo
bwiza bwo gukoresha ubuhanga bwawe busanzwe bwo kuyobora.ubanza gutekereza neza
mbere yo kuvuga amagambo akomeretsa.
TANGA IGITECYEREZO